The Comparison Trap - "I'm not good enough for..."
Ngl, for every single person I've come across, I have at one point or the other felt intimidated and looked at them from the very narrow practical perspective of their lives with which I had seen them from. By this statement, I mean every single person I have metπ so if you're reading this and you know Ify in person, yes, I have at one point 'eyed' you. The comparison trap could come in comparing yourself with different things belonging to the people around you. It could come in form of wealth, beauty, talent, accomplishment, intellect, success, e.t.c. I'll be using myself as a major case study in this article because I am a person so guilty of this ππ or should i say entangled in this trap. While being entangled in a comparison trap has its pros and cons, we shouldn't forget to develop ourselves with the positive effects rather than the negative ones as it could lead to different psychological illnesses, some of which are anxiety, eating disorders and many ...