You Are Not Depressed —You Are Just Sad.

 Alright, folks, let's kick things off!

In this 21st century, about 80% of teenagers seem to be voicing concerns about depression, which I find rather amusing. To me, it seems like many of these youngsters are simply feeling down rather than clinically depressed. "They're just upset because they're not getting what they want," I'd say. 

As time goes by on my little corner here, I might share some anecdotes about some people in my life.

Now, why do I find it amusing when teenagers talk about depression? Well, in my humble opinion, if the source of your unhappiness isn't family-related, then labeling yourself as 'depressed' might be a bit of a stretch. I'll touch on this topic lightly, staying mostly on the surface.

Alright, let me share a personal story. There was a time when people thought I was spiraling into depression, but nah 😂 I kept rejecting that notion. I had done my research on depression and was confident I wasn't slipping into that state. Those who expressed concern did so based on their observations of my behavior and reactions, not just what they saw on social media. I always reminded myself that life exists beyond the online world! Now, about those thoughts on my supposed 'depression'... Sure, I was withdrawing into myself, and only a few close contacts could reach me. Many thought I was ignoring them, but it was just me being me. I'm not going to lie, I'm a happy as f*ck kid! ! You just have to catch me at the right moment. My mom and sisters were getting worried, though 😂 they always knew I'd be up to some mischief .."she'll be doing rubbish" 😔😂💔.

Away from me and back to our 21st century teenagers. Why would a 14 or 15-year-old girl claim to be depressed and then start recounting her failed relationships when questioned? Or why would a 16 or 17-year-old boy contemplate suicide because he lacks money to support himself? Wake up, kids, and remember, as long as you're a minor, you're entitled to your parents' support. As long as you're obedient, they shouldn't even mention disowning you, etc. I can't take these reasons seriously. Like I said earlier, if it's not a family-related issue, it might not qualify as 'depression.'

I'd love to hear your thoughts below and any topics you'd like me to discuss!