HOW TO BE A MAN.


Step 1 and only step: find a person you can trust and be vulnerable with.

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  1. Stanley AmehJune 7, 2025 at 11:50 AM

    Hmmmm I don't think finding a person should be the first step

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  2. AnonymousJune 7, 2025 at 12:04 PM

    Find God

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  3. AnonymousJune 8, 2025 at 5:41 AM

    Make your money first before finding a person

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  4. AnonymousJune 8, 2025 at 6:10 AM

    I don't think that should be the first step. The first step should be
    1. Recognizing and accepting responsibility for one's emotions, actions and decisions🤔

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