STILL BECOMING

  To the one person that made my 19th year a memorable one, David Adedolapo Obadiah, I love you so much. If I took nothing out of my 19th year, at least I know not to “settle” anymore, and self discovery is not an action or a process. It is a constant cycle/struggle/growth that takes place at certain intervals in life; and this brings me to dropping this bombshell¡ Until January 17th 2027, my blog would be shut down. I wrote for free for over 3 years and now, I have thought to rebrand ’Style De Vie blog’, maybe with a different name, maybe with a different logo, but definitely an entirely different website!😊 But in the meantime, while cooking, I will be closing contracts and landing clients in the writing field. I am still a writer, a full time freelance content writer who is also into social media management (still cooking up more skills for my readers😽).  So, please, if you are looking for any type of writer, or a social media manager, I’m very much available and would lov...
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Hey Dad,

I think I will ask God "why" for the rest of my life.

And never will I come to understand it

Even if God himself came in front of me to tell me the reason,

I don't think I will accept it

Some loves are too hard to bear

And with great loves come great pain,

And with great loss,

Comes the greatest pain of all

If love could have saved you... 

You would've lived for ever


I love you and will always miss you. And in my next life and after, I would always want you to be my dad

Courtesy: Ify your girl🎀

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  1. AnonymousNovember 14, 2025 at 8:17 AM

    😭❤️❤️❤️
    God bless you for this

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  2. AnonymousNovember 14, 2025 at 8:35 AM

    Lots of love ❤️ ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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  3. AnonymousNovember 14, 2025 at 8:38 AM

    Know that you are loved ify

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  4. AnonymousNovember 14, 2025 at 8:45 AM

    Ify take heart.
    The Lord be with you

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  5. AnonymousNovember 14, 2025 at 8:48 AM

    May his soul rest in peace 💗🙏

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  6. AnonymousNovember 14, 2025 at 8:54 AM

    I’m sure he’s looking down at you with a big smile on his face because of how proud he is of you.

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  7. AnonymousNovember 14, 2025 at 10:06 AM

    Thank you very much my angel. God bless you for all your support. Your support has really gone a long way for us. Thank you very much ifymygirl 💙

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  8. AnonymousNovember 14, 2025 at 10:32 AM

    Fly high uncle🕊️❤️

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  9. AnonymousNovember 14, 2025 at 1:30 PM

    Rest easy Pops 🕊️

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  10. jeremiahNovember 14, 2025 at 3:04 PM

    May his soul rest in peace. May Almighty God grant you and your family the strength and peace to get through this traumatic time. 💔

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  11. AnonymousNovember 14, 2025 at 3:41 PM

    May his soul rest in peace 🙏

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  12. AnonymousNovember 14, 2025 at 4:30 PM

    ❤️God heal your pains amen

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  13. AnonymousNovember 14, 2025 at 4:50 PM

    You'll be fine, love ♥️

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  14. AnonymousNovember 14, 2025 at 6:06 PM

    God knows the best💔

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  15. AnonymousNovember 14, 2025 at 10:33 PM

    Take heart 🫂🫶🏾

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  16. Oje RonaldoNovember 15, 2025 at 2:53 AM

    May his soul rest in perfect peace. May Almighty God grant you and your family the strength and peace to get through the bad times

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