A LUXURIOUS JUSTICE???

  “While I was a student, it was more than a struggle for my parents. We were feeding from hand to mouth, literally, but we didn’t even have a choice to stop my schooling because they were more than bent on seeing me successful, and I on the other hand, was bent on making my uneducated parents proud. Honestly, we were getting used to the suffering. We kept on adapting and adapting till… well, my parents didnt know how I was going to adapt after bandits raided my school and kidnapped 64 of us, including our teachers and principal.   The news spread faster than wildfire and almost everyone in our not so little village knew about it. Of course, they did feel bad for the families of the victims, only for the next minute to be used to gaslight other villagers… not to leave their homes in search of us, or take the laws i to their hands, or even to go spiritual like we heard some communities do, but just to sit in bed and feel bad for the captives in the forest with bandits.  Ho...
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Hey Dad,

I think I will ask God "why" for the rest of my life.

And never will I come to understand it

Even if God himself came in front of me to tell me the reason,

I don't think I will accept it

Some loves are too hard to bear

And with great loves come great pain,

And with great loss,

Comes the greatest pain of all

If love could have saved you... 

You would've lived for ever


I love you and will always miss you. And in my next life and after, I would always want you to be my dad

Courtesy: Ify your girl🎀

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  1. AnonymousNovember 14, 2025 at 8:17 AM

    😭❤️❤️❤️
    God bless you for this

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  2. AnonymousNovember 14, 2025 at 8:35 AM

    Lots of love ❤️ ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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  3. AnonymousNovember 14, 2025 at 8:38 AM

    Know that you are loved ify

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  4. AnonymousNovember 14, 2025 at 8:45 AM

    Ify take heart.
    The Lord be with you

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  5. AnonymousNovember 14, 2025 at 8:48 AM

    May his soul rest in peace 💗🙏

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  6. AnonymousNovember 14, 2025 at 8:54 AM

    I’m sure he’s looking down at you with a big smile on his face because of how proud he is of you.

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  7. AnonymousNovember 14, 2025 at 10:06 AM

    Thank you very much my angel. God bless you for all your support. Your support has really gone a long way for us. Thank you very much ifymygirl 💙

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  8. AnonymousNovember 14, 2025 at 10:32 AM

    Fly high uncle🕊️❤️

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  9. AnonymousNovember 14, 2025 at 1:30 PM

    Rest easy Pops 🕊️

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  10. jeremiahNovember 14, 2025 at 3:04 PM

    May his soul rest in peace. May Almighty God grant you and your family the strength and peace to get through this traumatic time. 💔

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  11. AnonymousNovember 14, 2025 at 3:41 PM

    May his soul rest in peace 🙏

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  12. AnonymousNovember 14, 2025 at 4:30 PM

    ❤️God heal your pains amen

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  13. AnonymousNovember 14, 2025 at 4:50 PM

    You'll be fine, love ♥️

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  14. AnonymousNovember 14, 2025 at 6:06 PM

    God knows the best💔

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  15. AnonymousNovember 14, 2025 at 10:33 PM

    Take heart 🫂🫶🏾

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  16. Oje RonaldoNovember 15, 2025 at 2:53 AM

    May his soul rest in perfect peace. May Almighty God grant you and your family the strength and peace to get through the bad times

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